What was your most recent "Aha!?"

Life presents lessons and insights. It is said that the lessons are presented until we learn them,
and it costs more for each time that the lesson is presented
"So that's what they mean by that."
"I see now how it works."

What's this all about? 

Can you stand apart from your life and observe it?
How do you explain to yourself the meaning of daily occurrences in your life?
When good things happen in your life is that a sign of your value? Bad things?
How can you find a purpose, a reason for all your efforts?
With enough "whys," almost any "what" is possible.